RheaSunshine

So…it’s been recently pointed out to me that I guess I “should” have a boyfriend or husband now.  My answer to that is, “why should I ? I’m good on my own. I can take care of myself, I don’t need the complications of a relationship right now in my life.” Well, despite all my efforts to disregard these observations of my love life, or lack there of, I am starting to think that maybe I should.

Here is my question, How do I go about this.  I mean, dating these days does not seem as easy as it did a few years ago. I can remember a time when all of my friends had boyfriends, including me. now, it seems like there is an increasingly large amount of very attractive single women walking around this city, wondering like me, how do you get a boyfriend and keep one.

You may be thinking to yourself right now, “thats a ridiculous claim. there are tons of women I know that are  in some sort of commited relationship or married” right. well think again buddy. you know, maybe its this city, (I’m talking Los Angeles). Maybe its just here, but lately, I’ve been wondering if  this is some sort of epidemic thats sweeping the country? Maybe, if you hadn’t held on to your boyfriend or  that you met lets say 4 years ago,it may be to late! Nobody is commiting these days. and what if we missed our chance!… oh no, my left ring finger will never have a pretty diamond on it to show off to my friends and family, and I will never get the chance to wear that beautiful white gown that i’ve been dreaming of since the first time I put that white linen on my head and pretended to be married and that man of my dreams really doesnt exist at all!! YIKES STRIPES!!!!!

Ok, sorry, i freaked out there for a second. But hey, you gotta wonder right?

and p.s. this isn’t a cry for help in the dating department…but if you know anybody…just kidding

Um… I never left my bed today. Is that bad?

I couldn’t be motivated to do anything productive today. Not that I slept the whole time, I was awake for the better part of the day. It was kinda fun. I had a very jam packed and intoxicated weekend, so I feel that I deserved this right? Right.

I had a conversation with someone this weekend, discussing the difference between “Lazy, and Slow” It is my opinion that it is far better to be a Slow person than a Lazy one. Lazy people aren’t motivated to do anything and are quite content with never moving on from their current station in life. Slow people just lack the energy. I don’t know why I’m telling you this. It’s just that I have been seeing things alot differently lately.

However, staying in bed all day did have me thinking back to a time when laying in bed all day with a boyfriend was all the motivation I needed to keep me from being lazy (if you catch my drift). I miss those days, the good old days in my case.

Basically, my point to ponder today. Have I become “Lazy”, in my never-ending quest for a Love, or am I just a little “slow” these days?

we shall see…

loves

xoxo

Every chinese New year I go to the temple with sunny and get enlightened!!Happy New year China!!

Ok. I’ve had this website of mine for almost a year, I think I’m ready to speak my mind.

Well not at this moment. But soon!!!!

Loves xoxo

R.L.